baby bonding

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Not sure where to post this so sorry if it’s in the wrong place!!

Is it hard to bond with your baby? I’m not the most maternal type of person. I’ve wanted a child forever but I couldn’t picture myself being a mother. Did anyone else feel like this?? Everyone says that feeling will change once you hold your baby but has that ever not happened to anyone? Or does anyone have any ways of bonding with the baby you’re carrying?