I don’t know what to do, we will find out our babies gender roughly 1 month before our wedding. We was planning on doing a gender reveal at our wedding to make it a bit more special and include the baby in the day.

However my mum I absolutely furious saying she wants to know when we know. She said that it makes her feel left out and doesn’t want to feel like everyone else. This baby is special to her as she’s being through a hard time loosing my big sister and her 1 day old baby. So it’s the first time there is something to look forward too.

What do I do? 😩 should I go against my partners wishes and tell her?