This is piggybacking on another post I read ... so back story... we have one child, a healthy 9 year old boy and we finally felt ready for another so we tried and poof! Pregnant. Normal pregnancy up until 22 weeks when they discovered our baby girl had a congenital heart defect along with a genetic condition that was about 90% fatal. She didn’t make it and I had a D and E a month ago. My husband and I are ok, we are solid and have helped each other through but I cannot STAND to be around other people, even select family. I cringe and get sad, then angry and back to sad and I just feel completely unhinged in social situations. When does this end? Does it end? When am I going to feel like myself?