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I’m currently 15 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my ex boyfriends child, but I’m dating a new guy. He doesn’t have any kids and want to take my kids in as his own...he wants to have a family with me by this is my 6th child, he even asked if this baby could have his last name including me. I don’t know what to do because I love him and want to be with him, I’m just scared that he won’t like that I may not want anymore kids!!!! What should I tell him?!?!
Add on: my new guy been with me 1 month prior to me finding out I was pregnant

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Be honest with him. If you tell him you want more kids someday and you really don’t, you’re just setting the relationship up for failure. Maybe he will be okay with you not wanting more children. Just talk to him.

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You already know you love him?

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Honestly I wouldn’t even entertain any of this until marriage.

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That seems a little weird wanting to give your child his name. Not sure if you have honestly been together long enough, plus what does the bio dad say? It is his child. I am all for when you know you know in most cases, but when a child is involved tread carefully. You also need to tell him that you are done having kids if that is the case.

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So firstly, I don’t know the situation with the biological father of the baby you are pregnant with now, but if he is involved and wants to be there, it would be wrong to give the baby this new guy’s last name. Secondly, you need to be honest with him about not wanting more kids.

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