My husband had a family member pass away last week. My mother in law came to town for the funeral ( which is this Saturday) and by the time she leaves she will have been here about 10 days. She stayed with us. My sister in law has seven children ages from 6-18. She asked my husband can the spend the weekend. Which they came Saturday and today is Wednesday.

I had a 4 day weekend (due to the holiday and my off day being Tuesday) and did not get to enjoy my house or any of my off days to myself. I have a 12 years old that is still in school. So he has to wake up at 6 am to get ready.

We still have five of the seven kids. My sister in law did not ask myself or my husband if they could stay past the weekend. I guess she thought that because her mother is staying at my house that her kids could just stay with her. NO! I work from home and I have dogs. They bark at every little thing. I need peace in my house when I work and my kid is in school. My kid also has to alter his routine because of the kids have been sleeping in his room every night.

I am very pissed that the kids are still here and I still can’t do what I need to do before I go to work because my house is full of ppl. I asked my husband when are they leaving and he says he does not know. Then he tells me that she wanted the week off! HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU GET THE WEEK OFF WHILE YOUR KIDS ARE AT MY HOUSE MY KID IS IN SCHOOL AND I WORK FROM HOME! How does that make any sense?

I was told to take the kids home myself. I have considered it but I should not have to. If she does not come to get them tonight I will be contacting her in the morning to come get them. I really want to go off on my husband and his sister because I feel like I am being taken advantage of and I don’t like it.

I know I need to speak up for myself more but I just don’t. I need to do it I just don’t want to cause friction. But my sanity is on the line so if I don’t do something I won’t be the only unhappy person in my house.

Thoughts or comments? I need some advice please!0