Hes the only one benefitting

My husband is pretty uptight. Almost about everything. He wont park in public, I'd we go to a mall or somewhere else we have to park the furthest away from any other car or else he moves his car. My only issue now is whenever someone comes over to the house to visit, he remarks on who they bring. For example if my bfp comes over the first thing he says is " are they bringing the dog?" Everyones dog is well behaved, housebroken and almost always remains on a leash. We have a dog! And since we moved, she hasn't seen her best friend in months. Well my sister and cousin want to come over for a visit and again his first response is " is the dog coming? " but in a very snide tone of voice. I love all dogs! I feel like my friends and family aren't really welcome in my home even when his friends or family comes for a visit I am always hospitable and very accommodating in everything. It sucks cause now it just feels as if hes the one that's benefitting from my easy going nature and I'm just getting the short end of the stick. Theres a part of me that just wants to be petty now. I dont wanna share anything with him. Now I feel as if my family should just come and visit me when hes not around. That way I dotn have to deal with him. Sometimes I miss my life pre-him