Dentist won’t see me

I’m 8 weeks pregnant and I’ve been experiencing fever sore throat and inflamed gums I went to urgent care on Friday after my dentist refused to see me because I’m pregnant. I was told I have a gum infection and give antibiotics with a oral rinse. I can’t eat do to pain and gums being so swollen by wisdom teeth I called oral surgeon to see if they can help me because it hasn’t gotten any better at all. And I was told because I’m in my first trimester they won’t see me. I’m about to cry idk what to do anymore why will no one help me