Gender reveal and baby shower. Finger food ideas ?

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This is my 3rd baby I have a girl and I have a boy. Husband says no but I would like for this to be my last baby. So with it being my last I want to do a gender reveal party... and a baby shower

But having 2 parties , birthdays and school starting lol it will be expensive

So I was thinking with the gender reveal well do finger foods and baby shower will be actual big plate of food

So what is some good finger food ideas to do