So fucking glad I'm out of there!!
I was living with my mother for the last two years and it was HELL. She bitched and moaned about EVERYTHING. We had zero say while living there even though we were paying half of everything. That's not even all of it. We finally were able to move out this past week and she's been making the biggest deals out of the smallest of things. Examples: while we were in the middle of moving, my husband got sick and was unable to finish moving 3 boxes and a few trash bags. The room we stayed in was completely cleaned other than that. I got sick the very next day and stayed to take care of me. She called and called asking when he was going to pick up the boxes because they were such an inconvenience and she wanted us to also pick up the trash bags because she didn't want them in her trash can. What was the big damn deal? Then my husband went back for the boxes and took a light bulb that was in the room we were in, that we paid for. Just ONE SINGLE light bulb and she threw a fit over it making it seem as if he was taking every light bulb in the house. He asked her for a favor and she texted me making sure to let me know "the audacity" he has asking for a favor taking a light bulb. Like are you fucking kidding me? It's a fucking light bulb. Stop being cheap and buy some. Damn. It's so stupid that everything he does is a problem and I don't live there anymorw and I still have to hear that every little thing he does bothers her. She's acting as if she's the only one who needs money right now when we're the ones who need brand new everything to furnish our home, on top of new bills, a toddler and a newborn on the way. She also gets mad if I defend him in any kind of way and I don't immediately go to scold him about everything he does, which fucked up our relationship in the first place.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.