16 weeks, 2 days. Due November 19th

I see almost everyone on here already finding out the genders of their babies, and my doctors won’t tell me til my 19 week ultrasound. I even had the genetic test and ultrasound at 13 weeks 3 days and my doctor told me that they won’t test for gender because I’m not considered high risk. I’m so impatient😩 lol I already have 3 boys and this pregnancy is SO much different than the pregnancies I had with my 3 boys! Sorry just venting a little bit lol 😝

Venting a little more;

I did announce early on social media on my birthday because I was just so excited and all my friends and some family were excited as well but of course I feel like I can’t have a pregnancy without being pregnancy shamed by my husbands brother and sister. It’s horrible! I understand that our first child was born when I was 16 so it’s understandable that there will be negativity from it cause we were so young. My 2nd boy when I found out i told the family and I was told by my sister in law I was ruining her life and she and my mother in law treated me like shit throughout that whole pregnancy. When I got pregnant with my 3rd I kept it a secret from everyone except my husband til I could no longer hide it no more. This pregnancy, I am 26 years old and apparently just can’t have my brother in law and sister in law happy for me still. My brother in law and his wife bashed me on social media under a picture of my 10 week ultrasound saying horrible things about me, the baby, and my middle child whom has autism saying that this one will become “retarded” just like my son. My sister in law has cut off all communications to me and 3 boys since she found out and I keep hearing that she is bad mouthing me the baby and my 3 boys all the time.. It’s horrible! I have since deleted all pictures or anything on social media that revolves around the baby and asked other family members to do the same. I just want to have a baby that feels loved by everyone in the family for once! Is that too much to ask for? 😞😞