So my husband and I have been trying for five years... we’ve been talking about <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> on and off. He’s been thru 2 reversals as well. Let’s just says it’s not Been and easy road and lots and lots of stress with life.

But up until this month we confirmed with my parents that we would like to start again and that this is the year we’re putting all our focus into getting pregnant..

That being said my mom was thrilled and said she would full on pay for everything for us. This was great news to us and we never thought twice about it... (money was tight, <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> is a huge expense and with that help we thought it was kind)

Well until things started to get more “real” (dates confirmed, flights booked etc)

She freaked out on us... threatened me multiple times about what I should and shouldn’t be doing in order to have this baby.... I was SO hurt. After five years of going through everything we’ve been going through and talking about all these different ways of how I would like to have a pregnancy, and all the research i have done to what I want to do and not do, she’s now voicing her opinion’s and saying everything I want is BAD. Since of course she was a nurse OVER 20 years ago “she knows what’s best”. But times are changing!!! She didnt even know what a pre natal pill was..?!?!?

So, I’m absolutely hurt about it all...

I told her that this was my husband and mines journey on what we want to do for the baby and us... (and that her journey is to be the grandparent) but NOPE she took that such the wrong way! Now she won’t even talk to me and she’s pissed off.... so I just don’t no what to do.

Has anyone else experienced this in their journey? I understand she was helping to pay for it but at this time my husband and I are looking into the future thinking maybe we shouldn’t have her pay at all... because if she does i believe shes going to hold it over our head for life.....

Please help!?!? Need some insight.

Thanks