Feelings of not doing enough

Kelli

I will get these random moments of this feeling just washing over me of that I'm a bad mother to my 2 year old. Like I'm not doing enough for her developmentally. Or I'm being to harsh or short tempered with her. I also have a 7 week old boy Nd I dont feel like that for him, but he doesnt need to much. How do you guys deL with these feelings or deal with being so frustrated with your child you just wanna scream. Or sometimes I just burst into tears instead. I dont have postpartum depression this only happens maybe every 2 weeks I'm fine otherwise. And it only lasts few an hour. I just wanna know how to deal with my 2 year old