How do you ladies feel about your man asking you to change?

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Starting to show, boobs are obviously bigger.. put on a bikini that I would wear prior to being pregnant and fiancé refused to leave the house until I changed. Feelings are kind of hurt..

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I think it’s okay if he’s not being rude. My husband sometimes wants to wear his “house shorts” outside and I tell him as nicely as I can we’re not going anywhere until he puts on his jeans lol.

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I feel like it’s okay. We are married, lastnight my husband told me I need to put on a bra with a certain dress because it was too thin & men could see my nipples& sometime i should wear a longer shirt with my leggings if things are showing too much. I think it’s funny & kind of cute he cares so much. Nothing extreme or controlling tho

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I would kill my husband. Maybe I’m harsh, but if I’m comfortable wearing what I want to with MY BODY then that’s MY CHOICE. I already had a father. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I like honestly. I like when hubby tells me that what I’m wearing doesn’t compliment me. He says it nicely. Better than looking back on pix and thinking that I look like a mess.

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Wtf?

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Did you ask him why he wanted you to change?

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My feelings would be hurt too, tbh. But if he just said it honestly and nicely, then he has the right to have an opinion.  If my husband or even family or friends wore something I felt was inappropriate, I would let them know.

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Girl, I get the same from my husband, even mean looks. We are on the struggle bus, but anyways you are beautiful, wear what you feel best in. If he is just being mean then ignore him, but if its just really revealing or something (cause lets face it, our boobies do get big) then thats understandable! He doesnt want all the other guys to be seeing his girl!

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Nope. I could not be with a man who was not secure enough to leave the house if I had a little boob showing 🤷‍♀️ also not ok with a dude who tries to exert any level of control over what I wear.

How do you ladies feel about your man asking you to change?

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