Baby Shower Post?

It is 2019, it is very common to not live close to family. Negative responses are not welcome! Some of us can be very snotty for no reason.

Anyway, I am pregnant with twin girls & feeling very overwhelmed with all the stuff we are going to need. We have a four old daughter & didn’t have a baby shower with her either. My mom keeps asking me when am I going to post the registry but idk what to say, how to say it without expecting anything from anyone. We got everything for our four year old & it was a struggle, so having two has me quite nervous! Tips please !