Want to try something new

So I just want to start off by saying, everyone has different kinks or things that turn them on, so if this is something that you are not into, please do not post rude comments about how it’s gross or whatever. Your comment will be ignored so don’t even waste your time. This app is suppose to be an open place. TIA

Okay so recently my bf and I have wanted to have a threesome or maybe go open. We met this couple at a bar and they seem really nice and we all got drunk and we somehow ended up talking about a foursome, they had done it before and we were interested but nobody was seriously considering it at the time. It was kinda exciting to talk about with another couple though! But I still don’t know if I’m only seeing the lighter side of this? Have any of you ladies had threesomes foursomes with your SO? Do you have an open relationship? I’ve heard of some people who really want an open relationship or to do this stuff but then when they do it, it just causes problems or jealousy. Me and my SO are confident in our relationship and trust each other and we have communicated about this and we both think it would be good for us but I always want a second opinion or maybe hear some experiences good and bad. Maybe I just overthink and want to see all side so feel free to comment and let me know how it’s worked out for you.