need advice

ive been talking to this guy for 5 months, about a month of knowing each other we tried to have sex like twice and it didnt rlly work out cus i wasnt ready, so now that im ready i try to ignite it and he doesnt want to at all, he cant even please me, and i please him, only because i want to but he wont get mad if i dont.. im scared as to why he doesnt want to? one time i asked he said t’hats all u wanna do why cant u wait for the right time’ but what kind of guy doesnt want that