"Wake up earlier and put some make up on" does he have a point?

Last night at 12 i went to go to bed, but i couldnt sleep, i was just thinking about how much weight i put on, how my hair is always a mess, the clothes i have make me feel only comfortable at home but outdoors i feel like a tramp, not presented well etc etc. It really got to me so i got out of bed, came downstairs and binge watched Netflix till 3am to then wake up at 6.30am to by 1 year old.

My partner asked me what was up last night and i told him, also told him how he doesnt make me feel pretty anymore too which adds onto my insecurity, doesnt look at me the same anymore or compliment me, the love is still there, i feel it both emotionally and physical touch but i feel like he doesnt find me attractive anymore, his responce was "so wake up earlier, put some make up on, do your hair and maybe do a workout before son wakes up, then you'll be prettier and feel prettier" i wanted to cry, he went nervous as hell too, i think he noticed he said the wrong thing and quickly started talking about somethinf else and went to the kitchen to cook.

I think he has a point though, i mean its not really his fault if he doesnt find me attractive anymore, i let myself go.

Im working on a scheduel right now, when to go sleep, wake up, workout, do myself up and all and try keep to it strictly.

Also has anyone got any ideas to make extra money? All money we earn goes into bills and food, the rest into savings which we are strict with, so maybe i can somehow gain some extra income into a savings account for a shopping spree?

I have quit smoking recently too, maybe the money id spend on tobacco (£20 a week) could go into the shopping money? I need some ideas x