We have TTC for 22 months. Currently on clomid and I have low progesterone. The last few months I have told him when my fertile week was and when O day was. So we insured to BD frequently that week. He has low T so sometimes a helper is needed, especially during the fertile week. Today he told me that he didn’t want to know, that he just wanted it to happen. I was kind of taken back by it. When we first started TTC I didn’t tell him anything. But after going so long and one chemical I thought it was beneficial for us to both know. I know and understand his thinking but why does it have to be all on me. Between both of our schedules and needing helpers I just can’t see how this is fair. He just too damn optimistic about having a baby. He says it happened eventually. Well maybe it won’t but wouldn’t it be nice if we gave ourselves he best chance. And his comment to me hit a nerve “ I don’t want to know, I just want it to happen” No shit that would be the most ideal way to make a baby but that’s not us. And it’s not just going to happen.