Truth be told I am afraid, I am a transgender FTM/intersex and my fiancé and I have been together for 9-10 years. We are a gay couple and the struggle is being a man and pregnant..

it was so difficult to get my family to accept me as male even now I have a feeling they just pretend for me. Which I accept that as they are trying at least. I am afraid they will judge me when we want a kid.

We deserve to raise a family. as a child I was diagnosed with PCOS and I rarely have periods. My doctor told me by my mid 20’s I will most likely loose my ability to get pregnant. What do you know I am 23 now and I noticed my periods are becoming non existent. My fiancé and I talked and we decided to act now and try this year to conceive.

I was talking on the phone with my grandmother which raised me and we got into an argument. Long story short she thought I was trying to tell her I was pregnant (not true). Of course we were not trying and I wasn’t but she started laughing and said it would be weird and a male can’t have a kid... I love my grandma and she always supports me but this intimidated me..

This is.. if I can even conceive... I am not on hormones And I wanted to wait till after I got pregnant... however I am afraid how the world will view me being a pregnant father. I feel like I need a hug.