I work 3rd shift 7:45pm-5:45am or 6:45 When my baby's born my son is staying the nights at my mom's house and my bfs mom and sister said " we need to talk about this" i honestly feel there is no need to, they are both lazy as hell his mom is unfit her legs are bad because she's really over weight they always into their phones and best part his sister has a baby and treats her like shit !! She's one 1yo she forever gets yelled at alll the time like i feel so bad! She gets spanked she gets hurt because no one watches her she's always hungry, I notice when we are over there she doesn't really eat when she should, only drinks milk and those unhealthy ass hug barrel juices. they are always in the phone. While my mom pays attention, isn't ever in her phone unless it's important, doesn't yell or spank babies, she watched my niece and nephew really young because my brother and his girlfriend is always working and these kids are amazing ! They always get fed, I just don't trust him with my MIL I feel I would be on edge the whole shift and worried, I feel secure if he's with my mom because I know he will be safe. What should I do 😭😭 because I don't want them mad at me but I need my baby safe! I only trust my mom 😶😶