Bleeding (non-period)

So, the past few (maybe 3) times my boyfriend has fingered me, I’ve bled. It doesn’t hurt while he does it, and I know it’s normal sometimes, but I’m just a tad nervous.

I’ve looked it up but I want some more opinions on my specific situation.

I think I’m supposed to start my period soon, and I thought that might be linked to it somehow.

I would go ask a doctor, but my mom doesn’t even know I have a boyfriend soooooo, I’d need to figure out a way to actually go to a doctor.

I was just wondering if people could give me any insight.

Thanks!