Lost placenta and midwife trouble

So basically my bereavement midwife came around today after I had a stillbirth last week at 36+1. She told me they have lost my placenta so of course I won’t have any test results from that which I’m fuming about. Then she says my baby measured a little small for her size, not massively but a bit. Now at my last midwife appointment the trainee measured me and told the qualified midwife that she thought my belly hadn’t grown a lot so the qualified one measured and said it hasn’t much but she “won’t bother” sending me for a growth scan so of course I thought nothing of it until now. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? I’m so angry especially about the growth scan