Is it normal to check out more than 1 OB? I'm afraid to offend my OB and I'm also worried it might cause problems with other OB's. I'm in a very small town, so as crazy as it sounds, we have one main building, with almost all of the entire cities OB's in one office( aside from 1 or 2 OB's at best, crazy but true). And they even share a front desk and the rooms. So I am very worried, that by making an appointment with another OB in the same office, that it may cause issues with my original OB, or even now get attitude and ruin my reputation with any other OB. But I am having some issues with me OB and nurse. They have really good reviews, but funny enough as good as the reviews are, their attitude has been a huge part of their review. Especially the nurse Sam. I'm normally the person that doesn't allow these things to change my opinion, and I always go in with the attitude as; you may have had that experience but it doesn't mean that's mine. But unfortunately the reviews have rang a little too true even for me.

They are the kind of doctors that don't truly listen, or care what you have to say, and they decide what is wrong more than they try to find out what is wrong. I don't like those kind of things, but I didn't let it bother me. They also have a bit of an attitude all the time.

I just called today, I have recently developed new little itchy bumps which I used the word rash for. First I thought they were bug bites but my husband was not getting any, they are also super tiny, even for a bug bite. Then I thought maybe I could be coming into contact with something that I am lightly allergic to, but then over time it doesn't seem like either of those. I've also been having really bad headaches, so I left a voicemail asking if it was okay if I took Tylenol, and then I also asked about what I can do for the rash/bumps. Which it's honestly not a rash, it is not a breakout rash type of any kind, it's not in big clumps, nor is it inflamed. Its tiny bug bite looking things that are itchy and singular and popping up all over my body.

The nurse called and was pretty rude. I am honestly pretty afraid to be offensive or rude to my OB, nurse or doctor, but she was insinuating it was a allergic reaction, which I wanted to make clear it wasnt like any allergic reaction I've ever had before, and she absolutely wouldn't let me speak and then when I apologized to her for upsetting her and told her , I'm not trying to tell you what you know, but if you dont know what it is, I can believe you can diagnose me, and that I didn't understand why me talking to her as nice and polite as I was would set her off so mean and rude as she was.

She apologized and said she wasn't being rude and that she was sorry I felt that way, she did change her attitude and continued to instead it had to be an allergic reaction because a little boy came in today and was allergic to mosquito bites.. I didn't argue and just agreed with her, so she has recommended some allergy medication 🙄.

The issue with the boy today, did not make sense to me. There were no similarities to his reaction and mine, I have no connection with this little boy and I fail to see where that matters in my situation.

BUT I am in fact going to go get the allergy medicine she recommended, and see if it helps. But I have to be honest that I am going to be very upset if it does not. Since I have met these doctors they have absolutely not listen to anything, and been rude to any concerns I have had. I am actually starting to feel uncomfortable with them. I'm worried that they will be the doctors to do as they wish, and not as I wish when time comes to deliver my baby.

Is it normal to try multiple OB's? The office does not seem to feel that way, but I dont think I want to continue with this doctor and nurse, but I'm scared going to another in the same office, at the same desk, in the same room. Its stupid it's set up here like that, but idk what to do here.