All I'm going to say is that my mother in law invited her entire family into my hospital room. They started waltzing in literally minutes after giving birth. I was still entirely exposed and my husband's entire family saw. I'm talking aunts, uncles, cousins. I was furious but didn't have the guts to say anything. Husband didn't say anything either. Did not want any of them in there. Sigh. Next pregnancy, I'm not allowing her in the hospital room.