So over a week ago I was coming up with ideas for games/activities for my BIL's girlfriend's shower (she's crazy, probably won't be around long, that's a whole other story) but for her shower I found onsie painting. I thought that sounded like a lot of fun so we planned that for her shower. I wished someone had done that for my little girl and then I realized that I could do that. So I invited my mom and my MIL and my BIL's girlfriend and her mom and sister and a friend of mine to hang out and paint onsies for our little ones and/or soon to be little ones. Well like I said I planned this over a week ago and got all the materials and stuff ready but when I checked in to remind everyone about it my MIL texted me back and said she'd let me know in the morning if she'll make it. She wants to meet someone to buy baby clothes and other baby stuff. Keep in mind this woman doesn't have a job, we've given her freedom to travel when she's babysitting our little one (which isn1-2 days a week tops) but she couldn't come up with a better day to do this than the day I planned my get together? It's so aggravating.. I love her most of the time, but lately things with her seem to be getting on my nerves more and more.