I don’t know what to do...

Okay so I’ve been dating my man for about a year and a half. He is in the military and we’ve been wanting to get married since bootcamp that was in nov. of last year. We were Initially going to get married in April and he had doubts and changed it to July. NOTE... it’s June 29 our wedding is about 2 weeks from now and he calls me today saying he doesn’t want to marry me because his captain said it was a bad idea and that he should at least be in his base for about a year.

I had so much trouble telling my parents I wanted to get married, I told them about a week and a half ago. They both cried and didn’t want this for me but learned to accept it.

I don’t know what to do everything is set for July 13th... I’ve sent the Invitations now.

We are 19. I understand it is a young age but we “were” sure of what we wanted.

I’m devastated I don’t know what to respond to him... 😭

I also just had my bachelorette mini get away 🤷🏽‍♂️