Do you think I’m bossy from what I stated. My boyfriend got mad and said I come off bossy.

My boyfriend has a job he brings in probably only 50 dollars a week it’s part time. We have an apartment together with both our names on the lease but I’m the one kicking out money like crazy for bills including my own bills separate from him. I don’t ask him for a dime half the time for bills at first I was just asking for 2 hundred to go towards rent and (rent isn’t cheap)when he was getting paid a little more and that was weekly I’ve gotten to the point where I stopped asking for help towards rent. I just some how try to pay the bills on my own, because he would just spend the checks he get anyway then when rent come up he has no money or not enough he start going around asking family for money on the sneak tip and I didn’t think that was right because they have bills too and he’s just spending his money but goes around asking for money for a bill that he should have to deal with.So I said he can leave if he wants if he’s stressed (as he say) I said he can leave because I’m paying the bills so I minus well live by myself and he keeps saying how stressed he is. He fill out apps for Jobs but don’t go to the interview.. what sense does that make? And I told him at one point I said you really need to manage your money better because I’m getting fed up that he never has money because he spends it but I have all the bills left on me how is that fair? But he refuse to leave he has his brothers he can go to or family but he doesn’t want to leave. And then it’s him flirting I said you can’t think that’s okay to flirt with women but you wouldn’t like it if I did it. He comes off very over protective I barely go out unless I’m at work but when I do he’s questioning me but he leaves out as he please and told me not to question him he’s not a kid but he does it to me. He adds random women on his pages on social media but snuck and deleted men that I knew and I ask him to stop adding women he didn’t know he says I’m not gay I’m not just going to have men on my page. I feel some type of way when it comes to women with him because he was talking to a random girl through text he just met. So pretty much I’m mentioning things hoping for a change and for our relationship to work out but it’s not it’s ridiculous. Now I’m bossy because I’m telling him what needs to change if he wants to stay with me. I told him we can break up I’m fine with that he says no.He doesn’t want to move out and doesn’t want to break up but he wants me to deal with how he is.