I mean this as no judgement, I’m all for parents making their own choices. But what do you do when you see something they’re doing that’s unsafe?

A friend of mine has a 2 month old and she sent me a photo of him asleep. He has a pillow, loose blankets over him, her rolled up T-shirt next to his face (her scent for comfort), a soft toy and crib bumpers (not the mesh kind). Surely her midwife would have gone through SIDS guidelines? It makes me so nervous but I don’t want to come across as a judgey-know-it-all.