Relationship problems.

So me and my husband have a 8 month old and I’m also 21 weeks pregnant.. he works and I stay at home with our child. I clean, take care of our baby, etc. We argue all the time. And we also say hateful things to each other. He told me today that it was my fault I was pregnant and that he didn’t want another? I feel like in a way it’s toxic. I gave up everything pretty much. After high school I moved in with him and did nothing for myself but marry him and have children.. while he built himself up in his career. So now I’m with two children, no degree, haven’t worked, no place to go but my mothers while he’s stable. He pretty much tells me I have nothing without him which I guess is true.. how will I raise two babies? No job. Nobody will hire me pregnant. Also who will watch my child? I have nobody. What’s my source of income when I have a newborn? I honestly just feel stuck. He says I’m lazy because all I do is sit with our daughter all day because I’m guessing taking care of a child full time and being pregnant is nothing. He doesn’t change diapers, feed, nothing at all. Any ideas? We literally cannot get on the same page and I feel like if I leave my life is on hold till I have this next baby.