What do I do??

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My boyfriend keeps asking me for nudes but #1 is too insecure to do stuff like that and #2 As a Christian i don’t believe that I should do stuff like that with him until we are married and #3 we are too young. How do I tell him no without feeling like I’m disappointing him or feeling like I’m a bad person for not doing it

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Tell your boyfriend that you don't feel comfortable sending nudes. If you're underage, it's illegal anyways. If he respects you, he'll understand. If he gives you a hard time, break up with him. You don't want to waste your time on someone who doesn't respect your bodily autonomy.

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My personal opinion, he doesn’t respect you.

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not saying hes not right for you,, but make sure he respects you because your body is a temple made to worship God!! i read something recently about making sure (whether were dating the person or not) you treat each other as Gods children!! Gods children are pure and they should be valued by others,, not looked upon in a unpure way (until marriage).

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Tell him those three things firmly. If he continues to ask, dump him. That's sexual harrassmant and he doesn't respect you. You are beautiful and precious to God. If you believe it's wrong, don't do it.

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In my opinion, if you bf/significant other can’t respect your religious beliefs and is pressuring you into doing something you don’t want to do, then have a serious heart to heart. I’ve been in a situation like this before, and it really caused me to think about where his priorities lie; i.e., whether he loves my body or loves my soul more. The latter is most important to me, and I think that if a partner doesn’t agree with that, then maybe it’s not meant to be bb ❤️ your eternal life is more precious than your earthly one!

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Do not do something your not comfortable with! If he doesn’t accept that then he’s not the one for you.

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If he is disappointed in you or makes you feel bad for doing it, he is NOT the one for you!!! I promise you, the right one will come along!!

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