Vbac/Failure to progress

So my son is 5 months old. Not planning on having a baby anytime soon, however I am thinking about switching my care and this is what I want opinions on. They broke my water when I barely hit 1cm(first time mom) they let me labor for a total of 12 hours (I was stuck at a 4 for 6 hours) they then told me my birth canal was too small, I would break his shoulders, etc. And of course I was scared, so I agreed. My baby and myself were completely stable. They checked me several times. Never said my birth canal was too small after several examinations. Then they deemed my csection due to his fetal position (sunny side up) which they did not realize until the csection. So my question am I just being dramatic or would you switch? 2. Anyone have a successful vbac after being stalled in labor? Thanks ladies