The worst part of today

Me and my husband have decided to try for out first but after tonight at dinner I think I'm going to give up on the thought of a family he seems like he just doesn't want to put in the effort to have a child he hasn't wanted to have sex in over a month or really touch me in any way at this point I see no chance of having a child anytime soon. If anyone has any advice on how to deal with this I'd greatly appreciate it