I’m 35 weeks pregnant and I developed a bad head cold over the last 2 days.

My team from work is throwing a double baby shower for my co-worker and I ( our due dates are a week apart).

My question for you ladies is would it be ok for me to show up to the baby shower sick? My husband doesn’t want us to go because he’s says it’s not right. But I feel like I should be there regardless. It would be ruder not to show up to the shower, right? Or am I wrong?