I’ve had a horrible time at work this pregnancy, just people being inconsiderate and saying horrible things constantly.

And THEN one of the women who has called me a bad mom (literally to my face), told me I was selfish to have more than 1 kid, and mommy shamed me for using formula after exclusively pumping for 6mos bc my little one wouldn’t latch, ASKED IF SHE COULD COME VISIT ME IN THE HOSPITAL AFTER THIS BABY ARRIVES! She’s like well you’re gonna be there for a few days why can’t I come visit you! I swear my mouth dropped WIDE OPEN! I was like um I’ll bring her to the office when she’s older. So she replied well can I come visit you at your house after she’s born? Ummm NO! You’ve never been to my house for anything I definitely don’t want you over here after the chaos of having a baby and staying home with a new born and a 3yo and a dog.

I was SHOCKED! How can you say all these things about me and then think it’s okay to visit me in the HOSPITAL OR INVITE YOURSELF TO MY HOUSE!