I know that this topic has been covered before and I'm not writing it to incite arguments or anything. Just giving my side of things.

My husband masturbates way too much! Now, I honestly believe it's his body and his right, but come the fuck on, does he have to use up all the hot water doing it? He never takes a shower and just get out. He stands there pulling on his fucking dick for damn near 30 mins, while I sit in our bedroom and wait.

It's always a race to get to the shower. I try to wake up before him and prepare meals, get the kids ready so I can get in. If not I'm left waiting while he fucks his hands. I never cared before but now it turns me off to him and I look at him as some kinda perv. Yes, they're underlying issues there, like him cheating on me before, so maybe that's why I've grown to hate it 🤷🏾‍♀️.

I will not tell him this as it's his business and I respect his privacy. I keep any snarky remarks to myself, but God it's getting difficult to hold in "is it still attached?" When he finally steps out 🤦🏾‍♀️