This is my 3rd baby (first girl), also first time having a baby shower, so i dont know what to do and need help!(a friend is planning it but asking me for input so i enjoy it as well).

It will be Co-ed , probably at my home, and definitely after baby is born, so everyone can meet her.

Im super awkward about recieving gifts, so i want to also do little gift bags for the guests, a guy bag, and a girl bag. Also food suggestions? I was thinking of doing bbq, plus a bunch of appies, and little finger deserts. All input welcome!(we arent doing games, as ither kids will be present and games with other littles are hard lol)