So we recently had a pregnancy scare (im 16, he's 17) and of course I don't want a baby while this young. I'm still in high school, he got his GED. Neither of us could afford a child, in time or money.

But we were talking and he absolutely refused the idea of giving a child up to abortion or adoption.

I don't want to have a child, I have a very bright future ahead of me that this would surely ruin. It's a scary thought, and it only affects me.

We are in a very happy relationship, otherwise, but this isn't something I want to just let go.

He was willing to do a lot of compromises about raising the kid, but he can't do anything about carrying it.

I just, I don't know what to think. I'm not pregnant (thank goodness) but the thought of being so scares me.

A gist: We're too young for a kid, he would refuse to get rid of it, my future would be at stake

Sorry for the long post. I just tend to rant sometimes

Edit: I didn't realize i didn't include this, but i am on the pill and we do use condoms