So I finally got to meet this guy I’ve been talking to forever and we had sex. He is currently stationed in New Jersey and I stay in IL. It lasted two minutes every night and I did t even get to get the big O....sex was wack and I was really disappointed. Now with that being said we did have sex when I was fertile/ovulating. I’m about 10dpo and I already had pink spotting for 3 days, breast soreness, lower back cramps and just cramping in general. I took a test came out negative. I guess it was too early to tell so if my period doesn’t come I will test again. What I need help is, should I tell him what I am going through or wait so he doesn’t worry and it turns out that I am not pregnant?