I’m having mine second weekend of September I’m having a boy so we are doing a sports theme

I am having my shower August 17th..so i told everyone around july 1st. It gave the people a month to figure out if they will come or not..by July 30th i should have a full count of people. So far we got 40_45.

First days of August gives people time to budget to buy you a gift and gets them mentally prepared for the event