sex drive.

i dont get wet. its a vagina so its moist but i never have a sufficient amount of fluids, im constantly having to use lube, he’s constantly having to pull out and spit. its such a hassle. i dont please myself sexually, fingers, vibrantors, dildos, toys, tingly lube i just cant, i dont get off to anything. vibrations in ny clit do not feel good to me, oral sex tickles. penetration feels good but it isnt this great experience everyone else experience. im at a loss, im so jealous of wild sex stores and how aroused everyone else can get & how bomb the sex is and it just isnt it for me. im 21, and it bothers me😭 ive made changes to ny health and appearance and its still isnt it, i cant please myself my man cant please me either 😩 ive even tried female viagra and it just made me have a little sex drive because i literally never have one. not on birth control or taking any meds. please help 😕