For the last 6 months of my marriage I’ve HATED almost every time I’m sexually intimate with my husband. I really don’t know what to do about it or where it even comes from. I was raped 4 years ago but we had positive sexual interactions prior so I’m not sure if that’s related. I just feel like he’s crushing me and it’s like we’re emotionally disconnected, like he’s just using my body to get off or something??

I love him and usually am happy with our marriage so it’s really difficult for me to be dealing with these feelings