Ladies I need some advice. I’ve been taking to this guy for some time now and when we started we were both on the same page of uncertainty (we were still figuring out ourselves). Well now I feel like I’m ready to talk about where this is going and what he sees in store for us in the near future and the distant future. But I will admit that I’m nervous. We have a simple thing going on right now but I want more. He’s still got things going on at the moment that I understand are big life changes. Maybe I’m nervous because he might not want what I want. Maybe I’m nervous because he does. Maybe I’m nervous that I actually have to deal with my emotions when I’m so good at running from them.

I don’t want to make it a big dramatic thing but I do want to talk about it with him. Any advice or pointers? Should I tell him we need to talk and give him a warning or do I just kinda spring it on him and see where it goes from there?? I’m super nervous because I’ve never been in this situation before. I know eventually I’ll have to bite the bullet and take the leap but doesn’t make me any less nervous...