In my message I said things explaining the situation and also saying that I am proud of us how we faced difficulties. We’ve been away from each other for two months because he was in the army. He is about to come back in two days and we had this huge huge fight on the phone starting with him making a 20 min joke how he felt betrayed that I wanted to watch a movie he likes without him. He crossed the limits and it was even no longer funny. Then from that everything started. One word lead to another, we were complaining to each other how incompatible are we when we talk, how misunderstood and sharp we are etc. I missed him so much and when things got calmed down and I called him to tell him that, he said OK. I said i miss you. He says ok. Are you saying it because you have expectations or because you want to say it? We need to talk he said. We definitely need to talk when I come because I cannot live my life being anxious all the time. We said love you and then I sent him my message which he replied

I feel pressured and every time we have a big argument I feel he wants to break up. I literally said I love you and missed u so much and he is saying thank you for your kind words? I am panicking and overthinking. My brain is tired and I’ve been crying all night.