Concert?
If you went to a concert with your boyfriend at the time (now husband) some drunk girl was next to him with her boyfriend and his friend behind her in the next row and she first accidentally bumped into your boyfriend. No big deal. But the next song grabs your boyfriends arm to dance(not dirty dancing) and all your boyfriend did was move away and then the next song she does it again and all he does is move farther away instead of telling her not to touch him? His reasoning of not telling her not to touch him was because he didn’t want to fight with her boyfriend if he would get mad because after the first time she tried to dance with him her boyfriend tried to steal my husbands snuff out of his back pocket. (My husband ended up giving it to him because it wasn’t worth ruining a fun time over a drunk dude) Would you want to go another concert with him?
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