Any tips?

This is my legs/bikini line the 2 days after shaving. I exfoliate, use a brand new razor, and moisturize after. Any tips? I don’t know what to do! I’m so embarrassed to even wear shorts. I’ve tried waxing 3 times and everytime I get horrible ingrown hairs, I’ve also bought an epilator and it doesn’t seem to grab the hairs. 😭