Problems

Okay here’s the tea lol I feel a little embarrassed to talk about this but it’s whatever, everytime I try to hookup with a guy it doesn’t get very far, 1 because I’m a Virgin and two because it seems like everything hurts! I’ve never fingered myself and when they try it hurts, I’ve even had someone try to eat me out and it was hurting a little so I knew something was wrong, I’ve had guys get like annoyed with me because they’d try to pleasure me but id pull there hand away only bc it hurts, what’s wrong with me? Has anyone else ever experienced this? Am I gonna be a Virgin forever lol