So we just told our family that you know we're pregnant we're about eight and a half weeks and unfortunately our family also works with a family business we run a special needs home and one of the ladies there that is my husband's aunt she doesn't do anything but run her damn mouth about everything and I specifically told my husband's mother that I don't want her to know I don't want her to send any pictures of my daughter with a shirt on that said promoted to big sister or anything because I knew that she was going to go run and tell everybody at my job that were pregnant it's not the fact that I don't want everybody to know but we're still early you know 8 and 1/2 Weeks anything can happen once 12 weeks comes it could be a whole nother story so anyways we didn't tell her and then my mother-in-law says y'all need to tell her yourself in person and tell her that she needs to keep her mouth shut so I said okay so we haven't told her yet will I get this big old text message from her congratulations and everybody here is just so excited that b**** went and told every person at my job that were pregnant and ruined our surprise not only has she ruined now my second pregnancy announcement she ruined my first pregnancy announcement and she ruined my engagement announcement to all the special needs kids that I take care of I'm so sick of people ruining special moments that have absolutely nothing to do with it it is a privilege for me to tell you early that were pregnant it's not your right to go and tell every person that you want about us being pregnant especially when the one thing that we asked you to do was to not tell anybody that we were keeping it in the family as of right now because we are not ready to publicly announce and this is just b******* and I'm pissed!!!!!