I’ve been with my bf for about 4 years now! We have this rule where we can’t speak to the opposite sex even as friends. We were both cool with it and everything worked well. But I’ve caught him speaking to a girl numerous times a long time ago and he apologized for it and said he’s a changed guy blah blah. A week ago, I had a gut feeling that he was speaking to another girl, so I asked him out of curiosity and he denied it, but I kept asking and asking and he got really angry with me and said I’m paranoid and that there is no other girl that he’s speaking to. It came to a point where he literally broke his phone in front of me so I don’t see what’s on it! I have his social media pw’s so I signed on and I saw that he was actually speaking to a girl.

PLEASE HELP! I’m so upset and so devastated 😭 we haven’t spoken for 2 days now. I can’t contact him as his phone is broken and he changed all his social media pws and blocked me.

EDIT: most of your comments are blaming me? He didn’t allow me to have guy friends either. We both mutually agreed to not speak to anyone of the opposite sex. Mainly because he was really jealous about any guy who would LOOK AT ME.