My husband and I have been married almost a year and been together a total of 4 years. We both work and are going good financially all together. Uninvited barge of paying for rent and the bills which usually Coke’s out to be about $600 and he’s in charge oh paying for groceries and little things like gas and laundry. The thing is, he makes double what I make and I’m falling behind on rent because I’m legally blind and am having to uber places, buy $$100 contacts every month, and special things for myself.

My dad has always raised me to not be dependent on anyone and I would like to believe that I can do it on my own. But it’s getting to the point where it’s affecting my mental state, I’m always thinking about money and about how I’m gonna pay for everything. Im having a hard time asking my husband for help and telling him that I can’t pay for it all on my own. Part of me doesn’t want to disappoint my dad and the other part is kinda worried my husband will be disappointed/annoyed too

Any advice will help