What do I do?

A guy I met on a dating app lied to me about his age. (I’m over 18). He said he was 25 but after we had sex for the first time he revealed he is actually 30, and he lied about his age because it makes younger women “feel more comfortable”. I dont care too much about the age, I care he lied.

The situation made me feel weird and made me wonder what else he lied about. Is there anything I can do so he can’t do this to someone else?

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Zo

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What a douche. Just move on. Learn from it.

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“can he do this to someone else” girl, he practically told on himself! “it makes younger WOMEN feel comfortable.” he does this quite often - you weren’t the first and won’t be the last.i hope you used protection. honestly, a lot of these apps are simply used for hookups.

K

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If there’s a function in the app to report him, by all means go for it. At the very least it’ll flag him for close monitoring. If you know anyone else using the app warn them to steer clear. As for yourself keep an eye on your health. If he’s skeezy enough to lie about something as simple as his age there’s no telling what else he lied about. Sorry this happened to you!

Ay

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You can only report him on the app. Sorry this happened to you hun

0

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I think karma is eventually gonna come after him. For now if you happen to run into anyone somehow who speaks of him warn them. But beyond that just cut him off and move on. If he think lying is okay who knows what else he thinks is okay...There are much better guys who think that lying isn’t okay and I’m sure they will be much better off with you than him.

li

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I mean no not unless you publicly humiliate him which I don’t think his offense calls for that.